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Pulling up our pants and getting to work

By Sally Pla
Tuesday, Nov 11 2008, 09:44 AM

I've spoken to many friends and relatives this past week who, no matter what their political leanings, are newly hopeful about the future, now that we have President-Elect Obama.  Hope is a new commodity, and it's trading high. That's not to say it won't be hard work, though.  

I have a cousin out in California, who has spent most of her life advocating for folks with disabilities/special needs. Her reflections are so eloquently expressed. I hope she doesn't mind me quoting her here:  

"I'm old enough to remember the rough times of the Civil Rights movement very vividly, so like many, I feel the real weight of the arc of history right now. I can literally feel that heavy wheel slowly turning. I talked to my aunt on Sunday, who's 90 now, and she said that she is glad that she has lived long enough to actually witness this happening to our country . . .

"There are so many additional benefits. Obama is honest, tough, fair and a constitutional scholar. That means his administration will not allow our constitution to be abused, and will not allow our civil  rights to be toyed with for political purposes. He is well-educated, well-spoken, and communicates beautifully. He respects and advocates for education, and will not talk down to our people. That will end the use of the anti-intellectualism card that the Republicans have played consistently since Nixon picked Agnew as his vice-presidential running mate! Boy, have I been waiting that to change to happen! Obama is already serving as a  role model for kids and teenagers to do well in school and act with integrity (not to mention also changing the way they dress, as I have heard) . . ."

One small side note about the "changing the way teens dress." Interestingly, Obama instructed today's young men to "pull up their pants" in a recent interview.  

  "Here is my attitude," said Obama. "I think people passing a law against people wearing sagging pants is a waste of time. We should be focused on creating jobs, improving our schools, health care, dealing with the war in Iraq, and anybody, any public official, that is worrying about sagging pants probably needs to spend some time focusing on real problems out there."

"Having said that," he added, "brothers should pull up their pants. You are walking by your mother, your grandmother; your underwear is showing. What's wrong with that? Come on. There are some issues that we face, that you don't have to pass a law, but that doesn't mean folks can't have some sense and some respect for other people and, you know, some people might not want to see your underwear -- I'm one of them."

I just loved seeing this glimpse of the scolding father in Obama.

But hey, it isn't just the teens. In a sense we all need to learn "some sense and some respect for other people," in Obama's words.

 And we, too, need to pull up our pants and get to work. We need to learn to live within our means, and work hard to do so; learn to be greener consumers; learn to care about the greater good; learn to be open and accepting of each other in all our differences. So let's stop the childish political squabbling and finger-pointing and bullying and doom-saying, and put on our big-boy and big-girl pants.

Most of all, I feel we need to learn that LEARNING -- that education -- is the ticket to success in this world. Twentyfirst-century skills necessitate we teach kids to "learn how to learn." In a world where they'll change jobs dozens of times, they --and we-- need a fire-in-the-belly, a hunger to learn, to change, to grow, be flexible, adapt to an ever-changing world.       

So let's all pull up our pants and get to work!

Comments

LiberalHammer   

Sally - Good Blog.

 I think a good side benefit from Obama getting elected is that he is a role model for every young person, from his life story to his education.

Obama getting elected has shattered many White America's sterotypes of African-Americans, and has become a beacon for getting good education and to the young now, one large barrier has been broken to full inclusion and equality in our Nation.

November 11, 2008 12:45 PM

referee33   

Sally:  Random thoughts from a quirky mind.

Mandatory class in the Senior year of HS.  Living on your own 101. Guys and gals being taught simple cooking, grocery shopping, mending, laundry sorting, budgeting, simple home repair items, tire changing, all the life skills that Mom and Dad should do but don't have the time 'cause they're both working.

Three months after HS graduation, two years of Government service for everyone.  You chose, as much as possible, where you wil go. The military, work in a hospital, work as a teachers aide, day care worker.  Let's restart the WPA and the Conservation Corps. A lot of kids go through school with no plan in mind, they just know that their goal should be to go to college, get a degree and then get a job.  Why not provide a break for them to experience a different kind of life and have the country get some benefit from it also. Give them an opportunity to get off the programed education pathway for a while.  Some may discover that they enjoy what they are doing and find a way to make it a career.  I think the committment level of those that return for higher education will be much greater than it was right out of HS.

I would like to see a two track path in HS. The traditional school yeara as it now exists and an optional all year long program where the pace would not be as intense. I believe a greater understanding of the subjects taught would occur if there was more time available for learning in depth, rather than just regurgitating for a test and forgetting the majority of the material immediately after.

Some people walk to the beat of a different drummer, me,  I listen to a whole different band entirely! Any thoughts?  

November 12, 2008 7:49 AM

Jeff Blackwell   

So well said, Sally. Your light is well-appreciated in this community.

Ref - Some very worthwhile ideas. What can we do to see if they can work? Have you thought about running for the school board?

November 12, 2008 7:58 AM

Sally Pla   

Referee33: The National Center for Education adn the Economy issued a fabulous, insightful report called "Tough Solutions or Tough Times." Here is a link to a pdf of the executive summary of this report: www.skillscommission.org/.../ToughChoices_EXECSUM.pdf

I cannot convey how excellent and insightful I found this report. Many of the points you make are described and addressed in it. YOu may want to give it a read. The bottom line? We definitely must consider radically different solutions to address 21st century educational needs. The world is rapidly changing and American students need to keep up. I'll be interested to hear your take on this report -- let me know what you think.

November 13, 2008 1:47 PM

hisGRACE   

Ok I just don't get it.  Why is Barack Obama an African/American?

If he was born in the United States, he's an American period.  You know we are constantly told not to put African/Americans in a box, yet those who voted for Barack did exactly that.  He isn't black, he isn't white he is an American. Scolding father? How about liberal, with ties to domestic terrorist, a flip flopper, a taxer, and lastly the man that's going to take our economy which is already in the toilet and flush it

November 13, 2008 5:56 PM

Chris Tarr   

hisGRACE:

OK, so we won't ever again use labels like "Irish-American", "Italian-American", or "Polish-American".  I guess it's no longer OK to be proud of your heritage.  Unless, of course, you're a "White-American".

"How about liberal, with ties to domestic terrorist, a flip flopper, a taxer, and lastly the man that's going to take our economy which is already in the toilet and flush it"

*GASP* He's a taxer?  That has *NEVER* happened in politics *ever*!!  No Conservative has EVER raised taxes!!!  Let's impeach him!!!  

I wonder why we even need to talk about taxes...could it just be that the current Republican President has gotten us into a war without coming up with a way to pay for it?  Tell me, what is *your* plan to pay off this debt?  Tell me how we can do it without collecting more tax.  I'd love to hear it.

"Ties to terrorists".  Yep.  He worked at an arms length on a board with several members (of a nationally recognized program) with a guy who did bad things when Obama was eight years old.  Oh no!

How about we just call him "President Obama", since fortunately the majority of Americans saw through the types of falsehoods you presented above, and realized that he was the right man for the job.

November 13, 2008 7:58 PM

Sally Pla   

Thanks for addressing that person's poisonous pen so well, Chris. You have made your argument beautifully and your points are incontrovertable.

November 13, 2008 8:57 PM

hisGRACE   

Chris..so let me get this one straight you walk around calling yourself an Irish/American?  German/American?  Where u born here?  I am going to assume so, so that makes you an American period.  I seriously don't care if your black, white or any other color, that played no role in my decision to vote.  I wish like heck the rest of the country could say that.  What was it 97% of the black vote just because he's black?  Good grief.  As for hanging with a domestic terrorist your response is part of the problem with the world today.  Regardless of when the domestic terorrism was the man is still QUILTY of it and in fact has made the comment he wished they had done more.  Fast forward to Obama's politcal career.  HE CHOSE this persons living room to begin it, so yep it might have been at arms length and yep Obama might have only been 8 when it happened but it happened and he was resposible for it, just as Obama was responsible for hanging around him (at arms length)  So please explain to me why that's ok with you.  I could never, ever be ok with me.  

Sally I'm not a poisonous pen, I am person like you who has an opinion.  I just simply forgot that I'm not allowed to express it unless it agrees with you. Sorry my bad

November 14, 2008 9:39 PM

hisGRACE   

Chris..so let me get this one straight you walk around calling yourself an Irish/American?  German/American?  Where u born here?  I am going to assume so, so that makes you an American period.  I seriously don't care if your black, white or any other color, that played no role in my decision to vote.  I wish like heck the rest of the country could say that.  What was it 97% of the black vote just because he's black?  Good grief.  As for hanging with a domestic terrorist your response is part of the problem with the world today.  Regardless of when the domestic terorrism was the man is still QUILTY of it and in fact has made the comment he wished they had done more.  Fast forward to Obama's politcal career.  HE CHOSE this persons living room to begin it, so yep it might have been at arms length and yep Obama might have only been 8 when it happened but it happened and he was resposible for it, just as Obama was responsible for hanging around him (at arms length)  So please explain to me why that's ok with you.  I could never, ever be ok with me.  

Sally I'm not a poisonous pen, I am person like you who has an opinion.  I just simply forgot that I'm not allowed to express it unless it agrees with you. Sorry my bad

November 14, 2008 9:39 PM

Sally Pla   

WASHINGTON (AP) - Alarmingly inexperienced. So liberal he's practically a socialist. A sure-fire tax raiser. And an agent of the wrong kind of change.

Barack Obama heads to the White House his image intact after successfully deflecting those charges, made incessantly by the Republican ticket of John McCain and Sarah Palin over the campaign's final weeks. Instead, most Americans voiced faith in his qualifications for the job, national exit polls of voters show.

Nearly six in 10 said the first-term Democratic senator from Illinois has the right judgment to be president, and half said he has sufficient experience to be an effective chief executive, the poll showed. Only four in 10 consider him too liberal.

Of those saying they were chiefly seeking change, nine in 10 voted for Obama, shrugging off McCain's efforts to wrest that label from him. For good measure, nearly two-thirds said McCain unfairly attacked Obama during the campaign, far more than accused Obama of such tactics.

The Republicans' charges came closest to sticking on the subject of taxes, with seven in 10 saying they expected their taxes to rise in an Obama presidency. But even there the GOP gained little edge _ six in 10 said a President McCain would have boosted their taxes.

"Until you're president, nobody has the experience," Ulysses Pearson, 56, an Obama supporter from Cleveland, said after voting. "What I'm looking for is someone who has a more comprehensive, cohesive plan and seems to have judgment."

The exit polls confirmed what was apparent during the fall campaign _ the economy was the paramount issue facing voters and that meant advantage Obama. More than six in 10 cited the economy as the nation's top concern, with the next closest issue _ Iraq _ named by just one in 10 voters. Of those citing the economy, Obama had a 9-percentage-point margin over McCain.

Underlining the economy's impact, four in 10 said their family financial status was worse than four years ago _ the highest number to report that in a presidential race since at least 1992. Seven in 10 of this group were voting for Obama."

Okay, your Grace. I do believe these are the reasons Obama was elected our next president. I don't believe it had so much to do with the idea that he was black.

I hope you can accept it, and accept the  will of the people of this country. That's democracy, for better or worse.

November 14, 2008 10:32 PM

Chris Tarr   

Could it be OK with me because I'm more open-minded than you?  Perhaps my critical thinking skills are better?

You were the one asking why Obama calls himself an African-American.  He does, because he is.  Just like Irish-Americans, Italian-Americans, and even Christians call themselves such.  It doesn't matter if you were born here or not - unless you're 100% Native-American, your ancestors came from somewhere other than America.  Deal with it.  Last I heard, this great country was founded by *your-country's name here*-Americans.

Please provide us with the actual statistics that show that 97% of blacks voted for Obama because he was black.  I ask, because I'm quite sure that your stats are completely made up.

Now, moving on to Ayers.  It's has been proven that the "kickoff in Ayers's living room story" is a fabrication.  Ayers hosted one of many parties, and Obama stopped by for a few minutes, since they served on the same nationally-recognized board.  Even with that, what is the significance?  Are you afraid that Obama caught the terrorism bug because Ayers sneezed on him or something?  Geez...McCain "palled around" with actual convicted criminals as well.  Remember the Keating five?  I guess that makes McCain a criminal, since he spent way more time with those guys than Obama did with Ayers.  

In fact, McCain says he's going to work with Obama.  According to you, Obama has ties with terrorists, because he worked with a guy who did some bad things back when Obama was a child.  Things Obama denounced, by the way.  At any rate, using your twisted logic, McCain must have ties to terrorists, because he works with Obama, who you says has ties with terrorists!  See, I can make the dots connect by distorting reality.

As for your last line to Sally, I don't think you really do have an opinion.  I think you have Rush Limbaugh's opinion, because you've repeated the party line, word-for-word.  Which means you are not at all like Sally.  You're right.  It is your bad.

November 14, 2008 10:40 PM

Sally Pla   

About the 97% of African Americans voting Obama: it might be true that nearly all did. But that's not what put Obama over the top.  According to CNBC.com, here are the breakdowns: "Two-thirds of voters under age 30 voted for Obama, another improvement from four years ago. He won 54 percent of whites under age 30, bettering Kerry by 10 percentage points.

Also backing the Democrat were working women, women with children, voters from union households and people earning under $50,000 a year. Most new voters supported him, and in a reflection of disaffection with Bush, so did about a fifth of those who voted for Bush in 2004 and a like number of conservatives.

In a cautionary note for the triumphant Obama, the survey showed he made little headway in two particular vote-rich groups from the GOP:

Obama trailed John McCain, the Arizona senator, by 18 percentage points among whites who haven't finished college, a modest improvement from Kerry four years ago. The Illinois senator also lagged McCain by 14 points among (wealthy) suburban whites — virtually duplicating Kerry's 2004 numbers."

November 14, 2008 11:04 PM

referee33   

@hisGRACE:  John Cleese said it best about how the "guilt by association" ploy should work.  If the "Rovian" tactics would have been used against Sen. McCain, they would have brought up the fact that Sen. McCain "palled around with Communists for 5 1/2 years".  Ate with them, slept with them, was with them 24/7. Scream at me all you want about - of course he was with them 24/7, he was a POW- doesn't change the fact that he was with them 24/7 so therefore he must be a communist. The Obama/Ayers (terrorist) association is just as absurd.

From Webster's dictionary -Grace- the quality or state of being considerate or thoughtful. May I suggest you choose a different moniker to blog with, because you sir are neither!

November 15, 2008 3:52 AM

hisGRACE   

Chris...your right I was wrong.  It wasn't 97% it was 95%..give or take a few. As for being more open minded about Ayers...I beg you to ask the remaining family members of those that were killed by his terrorism how they feel about "your open mindedness"  does that mean what Timothy McVey did was alright with you?  Would it be ok for Barack Obama to drop in at his house for some chat time?  It is a proven fact that Barack Obama did start his political "CAREER" notice I didn't say campaign in Ayers living room. And feferee33 it is not about my grace, it's the grace of GOD  I'll take that moniker anytime

November 15, 2008 11:02 AM

Chris Tarr   

Again, show us the data that backs up 97%, 95%, or whatever.

Bill Ayers is not alright with me.  Timothy McVeigh is not alright with me.  What Bill Ayers did is not alright with me, or with President-Elect Obama.  You stretching the truth about President-Elect Obama is not alright with me.  President-Elect Obama IS alright with me, and apparently alright with the majority of the country.  Why?  Because they've seen through the lies like "he pals with terrorists!!" and "He's inexperienced!!".  Thank God that the majority of the country didn't swallow the lies whole as you did.

It is, actually, NOT a proven fact that Obama "started his political career with Ayers".  It IS a proven fact that the party at the Ayres house was one of MANY that Obama stopped at in one evening, and again, it wasn't a quiet little candle-lit dinner.  It was a party with many of the people on the board that they both served on.  Time and time again, the extreme right-wingers have tried to make that event sound like more that what it was, and every time it's been dis-proven.  Also, let's not forget that bad things that Ayers did, he did when Obama was eight years old.  He hasn't done anything since, and Obama has denounced those acts.  I know, the truth is difficult to take, because all of your assumptions now go out the door...

Again, how does this connect Obama with terrorism, other than the extreme right-wingers trying to make it that way?

You still haven't answered why this same logic doesn't apply to McCain and the Keating Five.  How can you be comfortable with McCain if he was involved with convicted criminals?  How can that be OK in your world?

I think you need to learn more about the Grace of God.  You seem to be applying it pretty selectively, and from what I can tell, it should be applied everywhere.  

November 15, 2008 11:41 AM

referee33   

@hisGRACE: then start showing that you understand what "His Grace" means with your tenor and words of your posts.

I don't think that Pres.elect Obama will be dropping in at Timothy McVeigh's house for some chat time any time soon.  Timothy McVeigh was executed by lethal injection at 7:14am on June 11,2001 at the Federal Penitentiary in Terra Haute, Indiana.

November 15, 2008 4:21 PM

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Sally Pla is a 10-year Lake Country resident. She is a freelance writer and married for 21 years with three teenage sons. Pla has been a member of Lake Country School Board for 5 years, president for 4. "Parenting/Family issues and Education are my big themes."

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